EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
PERSONALIZED GUIDANCE REPORT
Emotional intelligence is the capacity to recognize our feelings and those of others, motivating ourselves and managing emotions effectively in ourselves and others. This quiz focused on four areas and twelve competencies related to them. Levels of Emotional Intelligence are measured by:
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Self-Awareness: recognizing our own emotions.
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Self-Management: effectively managing our own emotions.
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Social Awareness: recognizing the emotions of others.
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Relationship Management: applying our understanding of emotions to our dealings with others.
The following graphic is based on your responses and reveals insights into your emotional intelligence.
OVERVIEW
SELF-AWARENESS
Self-Awareness is the ability to be aware of our emotions.
EMOTIONAL AWARENESS
Emotional Awareness is the ability to recognize our emotions, differentiate among different ones, and understand the impact of emotions. Other people might understand and experience emotions differently than you do. Also, you might trigger emotions in others, so being sensitive to this possibility will help you communicate more effectively.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate you are highly tuned to your emotions. You are aware of and can recognize and identify the emotion you are experiencing. You understand that one can experience a range of emotions. You can also understand why you feel a particular emotion at a given time. You are also aware of your reactions to these emotions and understand that thoughts drive your feelings. You can use your understanding of your emotions to guide your actions. Your awareness of your emotions helps you connect with your feelings when interacting with others in personal and professional relationships. For example, you can use your emotional awareness to guide your decisions and interactions with friends, family, colleagues, or acquaintances. In addition, this awareness helps you predict your reactions to people or situations, which may help you respond more effectively or remove yourself from situations you are not ready to handle in personal and social settings or at Work
SELF-MANAGEMENT
Self-Management is your ability to manage your emotions effectively.
EMOTIONAL SELF-CONTROL
Emotional Self-control is the ability to keep emotions under control. Other people might be influenced by emotions more or less than you. Understanding other individuals' levels of self-control can help you communicate with them more effectively.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that you may sometimes be in control of your emotions. You are not always able to immediately realize when emotions start taking control. You can sometimes control your reactions and behavior but not always. You may, at times, find ways to calm yourself. You may sometimes focus on the thoughts running through your mind and try to change the negative thoughts to positive ones to handle your emotions better. However, you cannot always identify the reason behind your emotions and use that awareness to help you control them effectively. Your ability to control emotions can sometimes help you be objective in understanding people and perspectives, but not always, especially during an emotionally charged situation or personal emotional crisis. It can sometimes help you objectively understand perspectives to make good decisions. As you are sometimes aware that emotions can impact behavior, you may sometimes, but not always, tend to hold back before reacting during heated arguments or a stressful situation. For example, you can help cool off from a heated argument and get back to constructive discussions. Sometimes, but not always, you have an insight into the root cause of emotions, which can help you change negative thoughts to positive ones and help you handle different perspectives. By further increasing your emotional self-control, you will be able to see the person as a whole and not just in the context of the argument. In work situations, you can reevaluate positions and take appropriate steps.
ACHIEVEMENT ORIENTATION
Achievement Orientation is our desire to meet or exceed a standard of excellence. Other people might seek achievement more or less than you, and understanding other individuals' achievement orientation will help you better understand how they manage themselves.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that challenges and goals do not drive you. You rarely set goals or challenges for yourself. You may work on a goal but are unlikely to exceed expectations. You may need to push yourself toward achieving your goals, as motivating yourself is difficult. You do not think about managing your performance and may require someone to set goals for you. Your desire to achieve goals and conquer challenges is unlikely to impact your relationships. However, increasing your level of drive could help you at work. You can achieve success, recognition, and satisfaction when you take calculated risks and set challenging goals to achieve them.
POSITIVE OUTLOOK
A Positive Outlook is an ability to look positively at situations, problems, stress, self, and others. Other people may have a more or less optimistic view than you. Understanding other individuals' approaches will help you understand their perspectives and communicate effectively.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that you are sometimes positive in your approach to and interpretation of events. You often look at the bright side of things and can help others think and stay positive. You can sometimes but not always, look at life events or daily occurrences positively. You can sometimes have a positive outlook toward stressful things, which can help you interpret events and comments from friends, family, colleagues, and others in a positive light. A more optimistic approach would positively impact your relationships and work and help you better deal with your colleagues to pursue goals despite setbacks. In addition, a more positive outlook can help you stay optimistic in times of emotional turmoil and upbeat in times of uncertainty.
ADAPTABILITY
Adaptability is openness to change and flexibility to adapt to change. Other people might be impacted by change more or less than you. Understanding other individuals' levels of adaptability and flexibility will help you understand their perspective, empathize, and learn.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that you are stable and reasonable amid pressure and uncertainties. You are even able to recognize the need to change. When changes are required, you willingly accept them and can rework your priorities and transition smoothly. Your adaptability helps your relationships and your work. You can support your family, friends, and colleagues amid pressure, changes and uncertainties. You can lead and help others adjust when life events throw up changes. Your ability to be flexible and accept changes allows you to adapt quickly to new expectations, new kinds of work, and people. As a result, changes do not perturb you.
SOCIAL AWARENESS
Social Awareness is the ability to recognize emotions in others.
EMPATHY
Empathy is understanding others' feelings and perspectives as if they were yours. Other people may be more or less empathetic than you. Understanding other individuals' empathy levels will help you communicate and interact with them more effectively.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that you enjoy learning about people's concerns and truly listen to them. Your empathy helps you accurately understand their feelings, perspectives, and non-verbal signals and helps them feel heard. You can understand others' perspectives and feelings even when they aren't expressed openly or in many words. Your ability to empathize is very beneficial and a great strength while interacting with loved ones and at work. You may be the go-to person for problems when others are dealing with issues and need an empathetic ear. This skill can go a long way if you become a counselor or life coach. In addition, empathy is a great skill to have as a team member, manager, and leader.
ORGANIZATIONAL AWARENESS
Organizational Awareness is the ability to read a group's emotional dynamics and power relationships. Other people might be more or less aware of group dynamics than you. Understanding other individuals' sensitivity to emotions in a group can help you understand their perspectives and reactions, which will help you work with groups more effectively.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that you can identify the influencers in a group. You can quickly identify the person with more power in a relationship and understand the dynamics among people. You try to connect to the group's emotions and understand the group's dynamics better. You are aware of the dynamics and relationships in a group, which is a great asset at work. For example, you can identify the power play among team members — and managers and team members. You use this understanding to identify networks, evaluate team dynamics, and improve your decisions and peer interactions. Your awareness helps you resolve conflicts and even manage others.
CONCLUSION
Emotional intelligence is the capacity to recognize our feelings and those of others, motivate ourselves, and manage emotions effectively in ourselves and others. Developing competence in the areas Self Awareness, Self-Management, Social Awareness, and Relationship Management will help you reduce stress and develop meaningful relationships with colleagues, friends, and loved ones.
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RELATIONSHIP MANAGEMENT
Relationship Management involves applying your understanding of emotions when dealing with others.
INFLUENCE
Influence is the ability to persuade others. Other people may be more or less influential than you. So, understanding other individuals' influencing skills may help you better understand their interactions and influence on others.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that you can persuade others to agree with your viewpoints, but not consistently. You can sometimes convince others and win over them; you may sometimes realize your impact on others and inspire them. You can influence others at times but not always. Increasing your influencing skills can help you gather supporters for a social cause, a community event, a get-together of friends and family, or achieve a vision or complete a project at work. You may sometimes be able to convince others of a viewpoint you strongly hold.
COACHING AND MENTORING
Emotional intelligence relating to coaching and mentoring is the interest in helping others hone their skills and abilities. Other people might be better or worse at coaching and mentoring than you. Understanding other individuals' interests in coaching and mentoring can help you contemplate how you want to interact with the person.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that you may sometimes enjoy providing guidance, but not always. You may provide advice and support to those seeking such help but not actively seek it yourself. You do not see yourself as a good coach. You are sometimes interested in guiding and mentoring others which could improve your relationships and working life. However, coaching your friends, family, and colleagues could help them achieve their goals.
CONFLICT MANAGEMENT
Conflict Management is the ability to de-escalate and resolve conflicts. Other people might manage conflicts more or less effectively than you. Understanding how others manage conflicts will help you think, analyze, and process conflicts more effectively.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that you can deal with conflicting thoughts and feelings. You can reach a decision when you must choose between two options, each with undesirable consequences. You can also decide when facing two equally beneficial and desirable choices. Such decisions do not upset you for long, and you can resolve the conflict in your mind quickly. Your ability to resolve conflicts is helpful in your relationships and your work. You can encourage collaboration and cooperation among your friends, family, colleagues, and between teams. You may be the one who helps people resolve their issues and create a deep bond. In personal and professional spaces, you can understand different perspectives and find solutions that everyone will find acceptable.
INSPIRATIONAL LEADERSHIP
Inspirational Leadership is a style that inspires and guides others. Others might be adopting a leadership style that is more or less inspirational than yours. Understanding other individuals' leadership styles can help you understand others and potentially improve your style.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that you think of yourself and others as equal. You believe people must be inspired and motivated rather than told what to do. You trust people and are open to learning from them. You work toward your commitments even during stressful circumstances. You are a leader who inspires and guides others. Even in your personal life and relationships, you can play the role of a leader, which can also be a great asset at work and when interacting with others. You like to inspire and motivate others with their career or personal goals. As a result, you gain others' trust, which helps you gain the confidence of others and thereby influence them. Your trustworthiness allows you to guide and influence friends, family, colleagues, and others to work toward a common goal or vision. You will most likely speak about end goals or vision rather than tasks.
TEAMWORK
Teamwork is working with others toward a shared goal. Other people may engage with teams differently than you. Understanding how others interact within a group can help you better understand the team's dynamics.
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDANCE
Your responses indicate that you can effectively work with a team to meet goals. You do not engage with the team competitively or as a separate individual but blend in to be part of the team. You also stand up for tolerance and support those who feel misrepresented. You are a trusted team member who welcomes differences in perspectives and values all of them. Your ability to work effectively with others can help your personal and working relationships. You are a great asset to your friends, family, and colleagues as you don't drive a personal agenda when interacting with people. You stand up for those who seem to be left out or not valued in the group, and you do not tolerate bias toward others. As a result, your loved ones and team members trust you. You always understand any perspectives and differences they may have. You can also identify the emotional undercurrents among people, which can help you to identify networks and cliques and bring everyone together. Your understanding of people will help you work in teams effectively to achieve common goals.