How to Spot and Break Your Unconscious Biases
- Kris Abesamis
- Feb 18
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 29
Unconscious biases are the automatic mental shortcuts that influence our decisions and perceptions without us realizing it. While these biases are natural byproducts of the brain’s attempt to simplify a complex world, they can perpetuate stereotypes and lead to unfair treatment of others. Recognizing and addressing these biases is crucial to fostering inclusivity and fairness in our personal and professional lives. Here’s how you can spot and break unconscious biases in yourself.

What is Unconscious Bias?
Unconscious bias refers to attitudes or stereotypes that unconsciously affect our understanding, actions, and decisions. Our experiences, cultural background, and societal influences shape these biases, often without our conscious awareness. They can manifest in various ways, such as favoring people who look or think like us, underestimating others based on stereotypes, or making assumptions about someone’s abilities.
Why You Should Be Aware of Your Biases
Being aware of your biases is essential for several reasons. Awareness ensures that your actions and decisions are fair and not influenced by stereotypes or assumptions. It promotes equity in personal relationships, workplaces, and broader communities. Additionally, unbiased decisions are more accurate and effective, grounded in objective criteria rather than preconceived notions.
Addressing your biases also enhances relationships by fostering stronger, more authentic connections built on mutual respect and understanding. Moreover, being conscious of biases drives inclusivity, creating environments where diverse perspectives are valued and collaboration thrives. Finally, tackling your biases sets a positive example for others, contributing to a culture of self-awareness and continuous improvement.

How to Spot Unconscious Bias
Acknowledge That Bias Exists
The first step is accepting that everyone has biases. These biases do not make you a bad person; they are a natural part of being human. Recognizing their existence opens the door to addressing them.
Take the Free Cognitive Bias Quizzes
These quizzes help you uncover your hidden biases, including implicit biases, offering insights into unconscious patterns that might influence your decisions and perceptions. Tools like this help you become more self-aware and provide a starting point for addressing and overcoming biases. Take the free Cognitive Bias quizzes now.
Reflect on Your Assumptions
Pay attention to your judgments about people, especially when meeting someone new. Ask yourself questions like:
Why do I feel this way about this person?
Am I relying on stereotypes or past experiences?
Would I feel the same if this person belonged to a different group?

Seek Feedback
Encourage colleagues, friends, or mentors to provide honest feedback about your behavior and decision-making. They might notice biases you haven’t recognized.
Analyze Patterns in Your Decisions
Look for recurring themes in your decisions, such as consistently favoring certain types of people or overlooking others. These patterns can reveal underlying biases.
How to Break Unconscious Bias
Educate Yourself: Learn about various cultures, perspectives, and experiences to broaden your understanding and challenge stereotypes. Books, documentaries, and workshops on diversity and inclusion can be valuable resources.
Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness helps you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings in the moment. Practicing mindfulness enables you to catch biased reactions before they influence your actions.
Challenge Stereotypes: Actively question and debunk stereotypes when you encounter them. Replace automatic assumptions with thoughtful inquiry and open-mindedness.
Diversify Your Circle: Engage with people from different backgrounds, cultures, and experiences. Building diverse relationships can help reduce biases by humanizing groups you may unconsciously stereotype.
Adopt Structured Decision-Making: Use objective criteria and processes to make decisions, especially in hiring, promotions, and performance evaluations. Following an established structure for these and other activities minimizes the influence of personal biases.
Commit to Ongoing Self-Reflection: Breaking unconscious bias is not a one-time effort. Regularly reflect on your thoughts and actions, seeking opportunities for growth and improvement.

Takeaways
Addressing unconscious biases can lead to more equitable relationships, workplaces, and communities. Individuals who actively work to reduce biases contribute to an environment where everyone can thrive. By spotting and breaking your biases, you set an example for others and help pave the way for a more inclusive world.
References and Citations
Hoffman, David, and Helen Winter. “Follow the Science: Proven Strategies for Reducing Unconscious Bias.” Harvard Negotiation Law Review, 2022. Reviews research-based methods for recognizing and reducing bias.
Choate, Andrea. “Recognizing and Mitigating Unconscious Bias in the Workplace.” Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM), 3 Apr. 2024. Explains how bias forms and how to address it at work.
Williams, Joan C., and Sky Mihaylo. “How the Best Bosses Interrupt Bias on Their Teams.” Harvard Business Review, Nov.–Dec. 2019. Shows practical ways leaders can prevent bias in decision-making.
Devine, Patricia G., et al. “Implicit Bias: What We Know About the Impact of Implicit Bias on Stereotypes and Discrimination.” Annual Review of Psychology, vol. 65, 2014. Summarizes core evidence on how unconscious bias influences behavior.
Atewologun, Doyin, et al. “How Effective Is Unconscious Bias Training? A Comprehensive Evaluation of Recent Assessments.” RRAPP: Research & Practice for Assessing Programs and Policies, 2021. Evaluates what works in bias training.









