8 Ways to Tell If Your Work Is Draining You or Fueling You
- Kris Abesamis
- Aug 4
- 3 min read
It’s easy to treat work like something you must do, not something you get to do. You push through your tasks, count the hours, and hope you’ll feel more energized someday. Learning how to avoid burnout at work starts with recognizing when you’re merely surviving instead of thriving.

But what if that someday could be today?
Real productivity doesn’t come from just working harder; it comes from working with purpose. When your energy aligns with what truly matters to you, work feels less like a chore and more like a source of strength.
So how do you make that shift? Start by asking yourself these eight powerful questions.
1. Am I Treating My Work Like a Sentence or a Source of Energy?
If work feels like a punishment, that’s a red flag. It may mean your job doesn’t match your values or strengths. Ask yourself: Does my work let me grow? Do I get to use my natural talents? Shifting your mindset can reignite your work motivation, helping you see your role as an opportunity—not just an obligation. That shift alone can change how you feel each day.
2. How Has My Energy Changed Over Time?
Life changes. So does your energy. What once lit you up might now wear you down. And that’s okay. But if you don’t pause and reflect, you may start running on empty. That’s where energy management becomes essential—not just conserving energy but understanding how to recharge and channel it effectively. Take a moment to check in. How are your physical, emotional, and creative energy levels today? What needs to change?
3. Am I Saving My Energy for “Someday”?
It’s tempting to put off joy until retirement or “when things settle down.” But if you’re always waiting, you’re not fully living. That mindset often disrupts your work-life balance, leaving little space for fulfillment in the present. Instead of saving your best energy for later, ask: How can I use it now to do something meaningful? Life isn’t just about getting to the end; it’s about living fully along the way. Take our free Life Satisfaction Quiz to reflect more deeply on what fulfillment looks like for you and what might need to shift.
4. Which Tasks Fill Me Up and Which Ones Drain Me?
Not all tasks are created equal. Some leave you feeling alive and inspired. Others wear you out. Take notice of what gives you energy and what zaps it. Then, where possible, adjust your day to focus more on the tasks that energize you. You’ll feel the difference.

5. When Do I Feel Most in the Flow?
You know those moments when time flies, and you’re completely absorbed in what you’re doing? That’s flow—and it’s a big clue. Flow reveals what motivates you most deeply by highlighting your natural strengths and passions. Pay attention to those moments. They can help you find work that truly fits you and give insight into how to stay motivated at work, even when challenges arise.
6. Where Am I Working Hard but Not Moving Forward?
Being busy isn’t the same as being productive. If you’re spinning your wheels and not seeing progress, something needs to shift. Maybe it’s a process, a habit, or even your role. Rebuilding self-motivation can help you refocus on meaningful work and make real progress. Don’t be afraid to ask: What can I let go of to make space for what truly matters?

7. What Passions Have I Put on Hold?
Think about the things that once excited you. Are they still part of your life? Or did they get pushed aside by busyness or stress? Learn how to find your passion by revisiting the interests you’ve put on hold. Your passions matter; they’re not just hobbies. They’re fuel. Even small steps toward them can bring back energy and joy.
8. How Can I Align My Energy with My Purpose?
This is the big question. When your energy lines up with your purpose, everything feels more meaningful. You’re not just checking boxes, you’re making a difference. This kind of alignment is the foundation of lasting job satisfaction. Look for ways to connect your strengths and values with your everyday work. That’s where real fulfillment begins. Take our free Personal Values Quiz to better understand what truly drives you and start aligning your work with what matters most.
Takeaways
These questions aren’t just about self-reflection. They’re about transformation. If you’ve been feeling stuck, tired, or off-track, it may be time to stop asking what you’re doing—and start asking how you’re doing it. Energy isn’t something to manage. It’s something to optimize. Use it to build the life and work you truly want.
At Talent Transformation, we help people like you align your energy, purpose, and performance so you can thrive—not just survive.









